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Complacency Kills. Only Paranoid Survives.

Complacency is the slow death of success. It's understandable when someone fails due to a lack of capabilities, but what defies logic is when a person with full potential allows indulgence in complacency to lead them into failure. This issue extends beyond individuals; it significantly impacts organizations as well. Leaders who once guided their companies to success can fall into the complacency trap, resulting in the same organizations facing stagnation and decline. Complace

Dec 111 min read

The Old Shoe

We often forget the old shoe, just as we have forgotten the previous pair we wore when purchasing the new one. It’s easy to discard it, isn’t it? The role of the shoe is to provide comfort and safety, ensuring that the wearer remembers its comfort, appearance, and shine, especially when the new shoe pinches or feels uncomfortable. The desire to return to that old, comfortable shoe signifies its success, embodying its purpose—the Ikigai of the Old Shoe. But what about the new

Dec 81 min read

Social Fear Contagion

The human transference of fear is a common phenomenon. Many individuals believe that their fears are inherently frightful and that others should share these fears as a result. This belief in normalcy leads them to caution, warn, and even admonish others for their safety, often driven by good intentions. Dramatic narratives often amplify these cautions. Many human failures and limitations can be traced back to this fear transference, especially when it involves respected or i

Dec 71 min read

Killed By Flattery

Flattery can be a deceptive force in leadership, often leading even the wisest astray. The classic poem "The Spider and The Fly" serves as a powerful reminder of this danger. Flattery, much like the sweet poison it is, can charm leaders into a false sense of security. The Fly, captivated by the Spider's enchanting words, succumbs despite knowing the risks. This scenario is all too familiar in the world of leadership, where the allure of compliments can cloud judgment and lead

Nov 301 min read

Grit

Your success story is scripted by your unwavering grit. Certain individuals tackle tasks that seem insurmountable at first, yet somehow manage to accomplish them. It's almost like they possess a secret potion, sparking curiosity about the magical formula leading to their triumph. The key factor setting winners apart is not knowledge, intelligence, or cleverness; it's their grit. Breaking down grit reveals two crucial components: - Passion for Purpose - Perseverance In Perform

Nov 161 min read

Listen To The Voice Within

In times of uncertainty, it's common to seek solutions externally rather than tapping into our internal wisdom. The hesitation to trust our own instincts stems from a fear of failure and insecurity, a sentiment many can relate to. However, the key lies in acknowledging that the answers we seek, our preferences, vulnerabilities, and triggers, reside within us. Amidst challenges and darkness, it's crucial to illuminate the internal beacon of insight. This inner light not only g

Nov 31 min read

Leadership in the Face of Fear

Embracing fear with boldness is a hallmark of true leadership. Rather than shying away from challenges, genuine leaders acknowledge their fears but choose courage in the face of adversity. They exude resilience, viewing obstacles as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable barriers. A courageous leader understands the multifaceted nature of boldness. In challenging situations, leaders can approach them in different ways: - They can step back momentarily to strategi

Oct 301 min read

One Story, Five Learning Lessons...

One Story, Five Learning Lessons... A popular 'Panch Tantra' tale illustrates a profound message through the antics of a donkey who disguised himself as a tiger by wearing his hyde when he witnessed the tiger dying. The donkey, draped in the tiger's hide, managed to deceive other animals in the jungle. They feared the supposed tiger and offered him food to avoid danger. A satiated Tiger does not hunt, old jungle saying. However, the donkey's facade eventually crumbled, leadin

Oct 202 min read

Don't Let The Ineffective Tail Drag The Dog Dilemma is - which is the Tail and who is the dog

In the realm of professional dynamics, the clash between closed-mindedness and open-mindedness often unfolds a narrative of inefficiency. A scenario familiar to many is the departure of a skilled young professional due to the subjective assessment of their performance by a less competent superior. The exit interview then becomes a battleground as the departing talent candidly expresses their frustration, highlighting the inability of their superior to grasp the depth of their

Oct 201 min read

Adversity A Teacher Par Excellence

Hidden in the levers of Adversities are the navigational maps of success. Whoever does not wish to be born in the lap of happiness, pleasure, wealth, luxary and comfort ? It is therefore but natural to blame adversities for the pain it leaves behind. But forgotten is the fact that success in the long run belongs to those who have battled adversities and have emerged therefrom as victors. Adversity tests your commitment to purpose. Adversity tests your tenacity & resilience.

Oct 131 min read