It is always a mature solution in a conflict situation to win over by demonstration and action rather than by arguments. Winning arguments can temporarily create a feeling of illusionary victory...but in the long run, you end-up creating an enemy who keeps awaiting an opportunity to play 'Even-Stevens' with you ! Demonstration is , on the other hand, extremely powerful and aids persuasion. It stops an opponent from becoming offensive. Power is better achieved thru indirect routes of convincing than the vitiating paths of confrontation and arguments. Get-off the see-saw of short-lived argumentative victories.Win hearts as you win your battle and resolve conflicts.