Reciprocal Capabilities...you wrongly believe that your ability to gossip about others is your unique capability. Infact, where do you gossip atall ??? They call it gossip...you are only exchanging factual information with your point of view on it !!! You thus get shocked when others are exchanging factual information about you along with their point of view !!! Such gossiping in the FiRM is harmful to the cultural fabric and should be immediately be strictly enforced..