When things go wrong, easy it is for us to play the victim card. Easier than that is for us to blame someone as the perpetrator of all ills that happen to us in our life ... No one is simply a victim or a player.Victim & Player are simply about 'openness' & 'defensiveness'.... each representing a different lens through which we provide explanations for the many occurrences in our lives. Take charge. Stop playing a Victim. Take charge and be a Player. One is easy but the other is indeed a path-forward. Choose your option. As you write the script, prefer to be also the actor in the drama of your life. For all the wrongs that happened in Africa, the black men simply said- Ingabilungu ....(it is the Whites). Having said this, no one did anything after that !