Each one of us is destined to dazzle in our moment of glory. When it is your moment of glory, learn to gracefully acknowledge the honour and do not give up your grace in humility. When the spotlight is on the others, do not sulk, feel low or down-light their dazzling glory !  Be a graceful cheerleader when someone else is winning as much as you become a hero in your winning moments. Your character is the true index of your depth. Never disgrace it. Winning moments are cheering moments. Sometimes for you, sometimes for other winners.