Mind is the wicked Spoiler. It also is a super Motivator. It is like having an option to feed between a loyal dog and a cunning wolf. The one that grows within you is the one that you may unknowingly keep feeding.
Mind triggers the vicious spiral of failure for you. Mind tempts us to believe that the goal set is too high. That if you fail, it would be shameful. That you are not as skilled as the others for the challenge. That you do not have all the resources required. That failing means losing even your past glory thus why risk ? A thousand triggers to make you believe you are bound to fail. Don't do it !
Want to be a Winner ? You have to counter those triggers with positive affirmations. The only thing that comes in the way of your success and you is your self-talk. Positive affirmations. The types that tell you...
that your goals are anchored and aligned to your strategy and Purpose - which is Happiness as defined by you
that you are capable of achieving your goals
that you are built for higher things
that you are worthy of love and respect
that you are growing at your own pace and own skills. You are not dependent on nepotism.
that you are grateful for all that has made you successful till now
that you are focussed, confident, strong and getting better and better every day
that you are independent and self-sufficient
that you are built to be a winner and you know how to do it
You can try saying these affirmations to yourself in your head, aloud, or writing them down. Each day. You can also try writing them on sticky notes and placing them somewhere you can see them, like on your mirror.
To create positive affirmations, you can start by identifying your negative beliefs and turning them into positive statements. You can also have it uniquely pneumonised and use it as your unique pass word. I do it that way. My December pass word was 'Built To Win @#'25 ... and each month it changes)
Successful leaders succeed because of their focus, clarity and affirmations. You now know the way to go.
Just Go And Win It All !
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